In The Land of The Living by Austin Ratner

Publication Date: March 2013
Categories: Jewish, Family Life, Medical
Description: 

Driven both by grief at his young mother’s death and war with his distant, abusive immigrant father, patriarch Isidore almost attains the life of his dreams: he works his way through Harvard and then medical school; he marries a beautiful and even-keeled girl; in his father-in-law, he finds the father he always wanted; and he becomes a father himself. He has talent, but he also has rage, and happiness is not meant to be his for very long. 

Isidore’s sons, Leo and Mack, haunted by the mythic, epic proportions of their father’s heroics and the tragic events that marked their early lives, have alternately relied upon and disappointed one another since the day Mack was born. For Leo, who is angry at the world but angrier at himself, the burden of the past shapes his future: sexual awakening, first love, and restless attempts live up to his father’s ideals. 

Just when Leo reaches a crossroads between potential self-destruction and new freedom, Mack invites him on a road trip from Los Angeles to Cleveland. As the brothers make their way east, and towards understanding, their battles and reconciliations illuminate the power of family to both destroy and empower-and the price and rewards of independence. 

What I Liked:
  • Coming of age
  • Family saga
  • Road trip!
  • Humorous
  • Neurotic characters
  • All around quirkiness
  • Complicated relationships
I always dig those types of stories and characters. Unfortunately there’s also this category…
What I Didn’t Like:
  • Potty humor (I’m no prude but there are only so many poop jokes that a girl can take)
  • Meandering middle section that nearly lost me
  • Almost too quirky? Affected? Showy? Something.
If I gave star ratings on this blog (I don’t) this one would get 3 out of 5. It stretched my mind, but maybe a little too far.

Amity & Sorrow by Peggy Riley

Publication Date: April 2013
Categories: Literary, Contemporary Women, Religion
Description:

A mother and her daughters drive for days without sleep until they crash their car in rural Oklahoma. The mother, Amaranth, is desperate to get away from someone she’s convinced will follow them wherever they go–her husband. The girls, Amity and Sorrow, can’t imagine what the world holds outside their father’s polygamous compound. 

Rescue comes in the unlikely form of Bradley, a farmer grieving the loss of his wife. At first unwelcoming to these strange, prayerful women, Bradley’s abiding tolerance gets the best of him, and they become a new kind of family. An unforgettable story of belief and redemption, Amity & Sorrow is about the influence of community and learning to stand on your own.

My Thoughts:

A few of my favorite bloggers have had wonderful things to say about this book recently. After reading their reviews I had a feeling that this would be a book I could sink my teeth into. I requested it from Netgalley, was approved, and started reading it immediately. 

I love when I’m right. I did sink into this tale and rarely lifted my eyes from this book until I was finished.

Amity & Sorrow describes a life that I can only imagine. Amaranth’s daughters have been so sheltered that reading their experiences outside of the polygamous cult was like seeing the world through the eyes of much younger children. 

Amity is open to her new experiences. She is eager to learn about this new place she’s found herself in. Sorrow, on the other hand, is extremely disturbed and wants nothing more than to go back to the life she had with her father. 

This story is sometimes disturbing. What was started as an idealized way to live and love devolves into an alarming lifestyle. (The consummation of every new wife is witnessed by all previous wives, etc.)

As the author, Peggy Riley, says in the video below: Amity & Sorrow is a book about God, sex, and farming. How can you resist that? 

Other bloggers thoughts:

That’s What She Read
Words for Worms
BermudaOnion’s Weblog
The Picky Girl
Linus’s Blanket (An interview with Peggy Riley)